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Nobody is happy at home

Radhika

My family is really facing issues…

My brother earns quite an amount. However, my parents have to beg for the money. My Bhabhi will unknowingly or knowingly make life difficult for my mother.

My brother has no respect for parents. I don’t know how to make him realise what his parents have sacrificed for him. It’s even difficult to explain it to you.

I am really troubled now. I can’t see my parents especially my mother going through so much. And my brother is an estranged person now. There is no relationship existing. They live their own life inside the same house.

It’s very frustrating to see all this. My parents don’t take my money Even if i insist. I am tired.

Time and again there are fights arising. My parents aren’t happy. Bhabhi is also not happy. I am sure she wants to live separately. She once told my parents to move out of this house.

Why doesn’t my brother understand?

I want to take my parents and move out of this house. But for this there is no resource, parents want security. Brother wants property. So neither of them will budge.

I try to tell my brother what is right.

My mother thinks I am the one responsible for fights because I bring out the issues.

I feel helpless and rotten. I try to see things being ‘unattached’ to the world. But i can’t when it comes to my parents. My blood boils.

Give me some advice. Please.

Also I have been chanting ‘Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Dhantham’ around 50-100 times a day. Someday I feel good. Office life has been sorted out. But family life is still a problem. It has all started after my brother got married. With all due respect to my Bhabhi She comes from a rich family. So she has different values.

On top of this my marriage is still a big question mark.

Naran

Your intense desire to change your brother and the events happening will produce opposite results.

Pray and prayer only can help.

Instead of desiring what to happen, you thank your brother for respecting your parents.

Take a list of what you want for your parents. Say i thank the divine for………..

Daily do this.

Mantras and switch words will work when we surrender and accept the divine order only.

You cannot change anything with your will. Your will and divine will should unite. The link is the surrendering attitude. Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.

Chant NAMASHIVAYAM. This will help you to understand how to detach from the result

Radhika

Thank you sir…I realised…it’s not others…I am being too adamant and expecting things to follow a rule. Whereas…this universe is infinite…and has its own set of directions… I realise… I have to give in and surrender to somebody up there…

Thank you so much for this precious advice…

You are a great guide to life 🙂

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I lost all hope that I will succeed in Life

“Ambika Anaadhi Nithanaa Ashwaroodaa Aparaajithaa”

Hello I want to succeed in my competitive exams and my study. Lost all hope but I started chanting Ambika mantra. Is it really helpful? Thanks

Khushi

That is why students should study well daily. One always repents and loses hope if he wasted his time during study days. Nothing will help the 11th hour specialists.

Anyhow, chant the mantra with full trust. If you pass, commit yourself to become responsible and study well.

Naran

I am only giving 8 hours to my study and in that I have to manage my husband and household stuffs. I did my engineering but after that I didn’t get a job. I tried so much. But after 5 years I really want to study but competitive exams are too tough for me. Whatever I am doing, it seems that it’s not working. That’s why I asked about this mantra. Thanks for your suggestions

Khushi

I am really happy to know that you are studying in the midst of your household work. Mantras will work for those who have ambition, trust and perseverance.

Affirm, “I pray to Ambika, the one whose origin you cannot trace, and the one who is ever-present since and before the beginning of this world. She only can help me overcome my mind, because I know that one who overpowers and channelizes the mind can win anything and become invincible.”

This is the meaning of the mantra. The trust and regular reciting of this mantra will make you reach heights.

You can also write 398 in a piece of paper and keep it in front of you while studying. When sleeping keep it under the pillow. On the date of examination keep it with you. Competitive exams will be easier for you.
Best of luck

Naran

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