I want to get my husband’s affection. His mother has separated us .now I am alone at my mom’s house. Due to his mom he is not caring our 8 months baby also. I am not happy at all for past 1 yr. my in-laws are demons sir. I am in distress. Could you please help me out?
- Do the forgiving exercise for your husband and MIL: “I Vidya forgive you …… (insert your husband’s name). You please forgive me”. Say it 200 times daily.
- Repeat this for you MIL too.
- Write in a piece of paper “WATER VIOLET, JELLY FISH, WILLOW, WALNUT” and see this paper often and keep it under your pillow while sleeping.
- Chant the mantra “HAM YAM RAM VAM LAM” daily while sleeping. Chant this continuously till you sleep.
- Pour all your complaints and emotions in a sheet of paper and without reading it burn it once you complete one full A4 page. The second day, pour again your feelings and thoughts about MIL etc and burn it. Do it till you feel that there is no more to write.
Come back after 10 days and tell me what happened.
One more request sir. My in-laws should be taught a lesson sir. For that my husband should listen to me only because that much I have been killed by them every second from the day of my marriage. Kindly say a remedy for this.
Do that first. Then I will tell you some technique by which you can change your thinking.
Vengeful thoughts and actions will never help us. Instead we will attract the same type of people.
I lost my newborn baby girl very recently due to high pregnancy B.P. Please suggest a suitable remedy so that God willing I can have a healthy baby as early as possible.
Thank you for the prompt response. I just wanted to know whether I have to chant OM with proper breath control or as a mantra continuously and is there any limit to how many times it should be chanted or can I chant it anytime anywhere and any number of times.
No posture needed for chanting OM. Chant any number of times.
Sound is the creator of Form (Cymatics science).
Om is the primordial sound which creates this world with the perfect sacred geometry. The primordial sound, which is the creator of this world and which is behind every birth, is the creator of perfect form (body).
Since, the person had abortion there is some disorder in the formation of foetus. Hence, she was suggested Om, the creator of perfect form.
“I am the syllable Om. I am the sound in ether and manhood in men” – Bhagavad Gita chapter 7 Sloka 8.
What do I have to chant to become emotionally independent of a particular person?
Take the Bach Flower Remedies, “Chicory” and “Walnut”. Along with that, chant the mantra, “Guru Gugan Kodi Kodi Lavanyam”
Getting surrounded with loving people
This mantra opens up our heart. When the heart is open, you will invite only loving people and kind people in your life. You will be surrounded by loving people.
If anybody thinks he is forsaken, abandoned, loveless, and think ‘Nobody is there for me, I love so many, but nobody loves me’, then this mantra will be of help. How? This mantra makes you love yourself. When our heart, bubbles with joy and love, then honest and kind people are attracted to us.
Release Unwanted Emotions
YAM is the one that can drive out unwanted emotions. Release it. By chanting YAM alone, our anger, sadness and worry can be driven away.
The VAM is present in Lavanyam (after you remove A, N and Y). It is the bija mantra for the Hara centre, which channels true love then. True emotions will be channelled, because of Vum. It brings out true emotions of love.
The mantra brings the true love from heart. Who is the guru inside your heart? Atman is the guru in the heart. Heart centre is also known as Anahata. It contains an infinite sound within it. The ataman in the heart centre is in the form of infinite sound, which is also the primordial sound.
Thus this particular mantra release unwanted emotions from you, gives you love within yourself.
Heal the Loveless Life
Now a day the parents feel that their children living in foreign countries don’t love them anymore and feel loveless. In the same way, those without children feel loveless too. This mantra will make them love themselves better.
The heat need not go to anywhere to find heat. Water doesn’t need anything else to quench itself. When the atman is activated with love, in the form of a ray of light, in the tunnel of your heart, then you don’t need to go anywhere for love. This mantra creates millions and millions of rays of light of love inside the heart.
GUGAN is the one word which transmits love from heart to our organs. In addition, our entire auric field will be filled with love.
Chant the mantra seriously
That atman or guru will come and stay in our hearts permanently.
You should chant this mantra in a manner that tears should come down the cheek. Why? Atman is not an ordinary person. It is part of Divine and full of love. In such an instance, when you have so much love in your heart, it should come out as tears.
You need not have a relationship with others. Have a relationship with yourself. “We have to relate with ourselves only”, is the message of this mantra.
Sudha is a divorcee for several years. She decided to marry again. She consulted Naran, who suggested her to chant, “Sree Ram Jeya Ram Jeya Jeya Ram”, to forgive her husband and move forward in her life.
Interestingly, after a few months of chanting, she came across her ex-husband Raja, who suggested, “Instead of marrying somebody that we don’t know, why not we marry again”.
Sudha found that idea convincing and she got married to Raja, once again.
Last night, my husband ate a heavy dinner. He usually keeps Gelusil tablets next to the bed so that he can take it, if he feels acid reflux. There were no pills available then. He just remembered Naran’s mantra for effective digestion. He started chanting, “Rum Bum Dhum Lum”. Within minutes his acidic feeling vanished!
My husband & I attended the meet at T.Nagar where Naran S. Balakumar taught us about the power of Mantras & released the booklet to us all. That was on 1st Jan, 2010. Since then many things have happened in our lives.
Our apartment in Valmiki Nagar was up for sale since August 2009. Many brokers, friends, and well wishers were trying to sell it for us. Meanwhile, we have moved to Kanchipuram on 17th August. We met Naran before leaving and he advised us to sell.
Nothing was happening even in Dec 2009. Many interested parties would see the house. Will say they will call back, but nothing will transpire. We were making regular visits to Chennai and trying to meet potential buyers.
We attended Naran’s 2010 New Year Meeting. He had asked me to sing few Bhajans before the start of the meeting. After the meeting, he advised us to just put Reiki symbol and then release the apartment to the Universe. My husband was fascinated by the mantra, “Lalitham Lambodaram”. He began chanting and I began releasing the house with the help of Reiki.
We were scheduled to fly to the USA to be with our grandson and children on April 7th. We were desperate to sell the property before we leave for US. In March, we handed over the responsibility to our builder, who agreed to take a power of attorney on our behalf and sell the house in our absence. Naran advised us to release all thoughts related to the sale and that we needed to do something about it. He also said, “If the price is less, just think it is what you would have spent on the house if it wasn’t sold”.
Suddenly within 2 weeks, the right buyer came from Detroit. The sale was agreed to our benefit. The registration of the sale took place and we left on the 7th April as planned to the USA with a light heart.
We met Balakumar on the 3rd April and thanked him for teaching us the mantras, the right attitude to have and how to take disappointments along with success.
My husband believes whatever has happened is due to the mantra, “Lalitham Lambodaram”.
When there is an emergency, chant the mantra “Hare Rama Hare Krishna” seriously. Ragavi’s brother-in-law Varun was admitted in a hospital, specialised in treating heart related diseases. His condition was pronounced as very serious.
Ragavi wrote Varun’s name in a concentric circle and wrote the mantra inside the circle enclosing it. She also chanted the mantra and in a week’s time Varun’s condition become normal.
Ramesh, who is 35 years old, was more or less crawling, after a stroke. He wanted to learn Yoga from Shobana – a Reiki Master as well as a Yoga teacher, from the Bach Flower Center, to improve his health condition.
As a normal practice, Shobana enquired about his case history.
Ramesh remarked that he suspects that major reason behind his health condition is due to his worries about his sister, who is currently living in Dubai. He hasn’t heard from her for the last ten years, as her husband as well as in-laws has not allowed her to be in touch with them.
In fact, this has affected Ramesh’s father so much, that he died with grief stricken heart. Soon after, Ramesh had a stroke.
After suggesting few yoga techniques to Ramesh, Shobana asked Ramesh to chant the relationship enhancing mantras regularly:
Om Hum Namaha
Om Yum Namaha
Om Rum Namaha
Om Vum Namaha
Om Lum Namaha
Before twenty fours passed, from the time he started chanting the mantras, he received a phone call from his sister after ten long years. Finally, her husband and in-laws has allowed her to call her brother.
George was getting treated with a Pace Maker. His pulse was very low. The doctors said that operation can’t be done as he’s an aged person. He was monitored in an ICU (intensive care unit).
His whole family chanted the mantra, “Hare Rama Hare Krishna” for 4 days. George’s pulse rate became normal and he was transferred to the normal ward.
My husband can be called as Mr. Arrogance, even though he is good to me otherwise. Even though I have a good tolerance level, I tend to loose my temper after some time. This would result in us, fighting and shouting at each other for two or three days.
One day when my husband went to his usual antics of arguing and shouting, I chanted silently “Kadgam Saranam Sangam Saranam Saarngam Saranam” continuously, while he was verbally abusing me.
In an hour’s time, he stopped his shouting, became normal, and started a normal conversation with me.
I have decided to do this, whenever he tends to be abusive and criticizing.