I want to get my husband’s affection. His mother has separated us .now I am alone at my mom’s house. Due to his mom he is not caring our 8 months baby also. I am not happy at all for past 1 yr. my in-laws are demons sir. I am in distress. Could you please help me out?
- Do the forgiving exercise for your husband and MIL: “I Vidya forgive you …… (insert your husband’s name). You please forgive me”. Say it 200 times daily.
- Repeat this for you MIL too.
- Write in a piece of paper “WATER VIOLET, JELLY FISH, WILLOW, WALNUT” and see this paper often and keep it under your pillow while sleeping.
- Chant the mantra “HAM YAM RAM VAM LAM” daily while sleeping. Chant this continuously till you sleep.
- Pour all your complaints and emotions in a sheet of paper and without reading it burn it once you complete one full A4 page. The second day, pour again your feelings and thoughts about MIL etc and burn it. Do it till you feel that there is no more to write.
Come back after 10 days and tell me what happened.
One more request sir. My in-laws should be taught a lesson sir. For that my husband should listen to me only because that much I have been killed by them every second from the day of my marriage. Kindly say a remedy for this.
Do that first. Then I will tell you some technique by which you can change your thinking.
Vengeful thoughts and actions will never help us. Instead we will attract the same type of people.
My friend Suri, a mechanical engineer, wanted a mantra to get married soon. I suggested him to chant, ‘VALLABAM GAJAANANAM EKHA THANDHAM’, based on the experiences of several students of Naran.
He bought a CD from Naran that plays that mantra (running time one hour). He was listening to the CD on a regular basis and was chanting the mantra during all his waking hours (silently). He became so much attached to that mantra that he doesn’t even want to try any other remedies or mantras suggested in the blogs of Naran.
First, he got a job of his liking
He was doing an average job until then. Within three months of chanting, he found a job of his liking. It suited his potential. He got a 100% hike too.
Secondly, his looks changed
He continued listening to the mantra as well as chanting it as much as he can.
Earlier he used to have some rashes on his head. His hair lines were thinner and looking weak too. Within 6 months of chanting, he looked better as his skin tone improved and his hair lines became finer and stronger.
Thirdly, he got a promotion
He continued his chanting of the Vallabam mantra. During his first appraisal, after completing one year in the company, he was given a promotion. He got a 75% hike.
We met one day. He was worried that he is not yet married. I asked him to wait patiently and instead enjoy his current stability and a growth that has taken him to the next level.
Finally, he found his Ms. Right
His body language changed. He looked better. He was making five times more money than he was getting before he started chanting the mantra.
Then one day, after two years of chanting the mantra he found and got married to his Ms. Right.
Thus, Vallabam mantra changed Suri from being an average person (in the eyes of the world and not for me as he is always Mr. Right) to become Mr. Right in order to find his Ms. Right.
To get married – Lalitham Sadashivam is the mantra.
The mantra Lalitham Sadashivam is good one for marriage. If a marriage has to be done then it can be chanted a lot.
Love pangs, a case study
To heal love pangs – this mantra can be used. It will heal it.
A husband and wife were married for more than 60 years. Around 80 yrs of age, the husband passed away. His wife couldn’t live without him. She went through a lot of suffering, especially due to love pangs.
I gave her “Lalitham Sadashivam”. Now, she’s alright.
Male and Female Balancing
The specialty of this mantra is that for a male person, it will heal their female aspect, while for a female person it will heal their male aspect. Thus, it will balance both the halves of a person.
We usually say there is a “male-female imbalance”. We say that ‘I cannot live without someone’ or ‘I cannot be without them’. You can be without any person in this world. That is the meaning of this mantra because you are complete by yourself.
To realize the truth that “You are total and complete by yourself” is the purpose and greatness of this mantra.
You gave this mantra for marriage, and then you are suggesting that this will help us live without any person in this world!! Marriage means two people living together right? We do not understand.
The mantra means you can live without anyone. But, let us see why it is a good mantra for marriage? It makes the person total and complete. Lalitham Sadashivam – the inner meaning is “Ardha Nareeswara” – a perfect blend of male and female.
The meaning is not that no one should marry. What is marriage? If you are a female, and when you go in search of a male, you will select the right person. This happens because your male-female aspects are in balance.
Right person will come to you. When there are 7 or 8 choices, this mantra will help so that the most-fitting person will become your husband.
We did not have this mantra when we got married. For those who are yet to be married – you have got it now. You are all fortunate to have this mantra.
For marriage purpose “VUM OM YUM, YUM OM VUM” can be chanted.
Marriage not getting fixed even after many efforts
OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA
If the marriage is not happening even after a long period then chant OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA. For others you can do concentric method or two circles method connecting each other can be used. For those who could not find a proper match for marriage this mantra is used.
OM GAM GANAPATHAYE NAMAHA can be written by all. Writing this way is called as Likita Japam. If you write it in left hand (non-dominant hand) it is even more powerful.
As it is a prosperity mantra it can be used by all. If you do not know the source of money (for prosperity) then you can write this mantra many times. The mantra knows the intention behind your writing – whether it is for money or marriage.
It can be used for removing obstacles also.
Feeling alert after sleep
First we have to increase the fire element for which we can chant OM RAM NAMAHA. While sleeping we suddenly get up. The nature of fire is that it will never go down. But the nature of water is that it will always go down. It will always go towards the pit. For the fire to burn properly good air is required. For that chant Om Yum Namaha. If you chant both the bija mantras “OM RUM NAMAHA OM YUM NAMAHA”, we will become fully awake and we will be alert.
Improve your immunity
OM HOWM VUM JOOM SAHA
This mantra will improve the immunity of the body. It also purifies the atmosphere and it purifies the intra-cellular space. If you do this daily before bed, that place will not get earth quake. Such places will not be affected by earth quake up to 200 meters radius. When you are eating or drinking anything we can chant this mantra. But before eating or drinking anything, chant OM SURYAYA SWAHA, as it will purify the food.
Let the food provide nutrition to your body
OM SURYAYA SWAHA SURYAYA IDHAN NA MAMA – meaning I have offered this to you Oh Sun God and it is not mine. Before eating we have to chant this. Then only the food we eat will give nutrition, health, vitality etc. This can also be chanted when you receive money from somebody. In fact we can use this for whatever we receive from others.
If you chant the mantra “Vallabam Gajaananam Yeka Thandham”, while doing the Meru Mudra then it is good for the spinal cord. Refer the blog to check out on Meru Mudra: http://healbymudra.wordpress.com/2010/05/22/uses-of-meru-mudra/.
It drives out our fear also. If you chant regularly, your back will become solid and strengthened.
In day-to-day life, we think, ‘My time has yet to come for my marriage/my job’. Our time is different from divine time. Everything happens only ‘with’ and ‘in’ divine time. This mantra synchronizes your time with divine time. By chanting it, continuously one can get a job or get married.
If anybody is impatient, then Vallabam mantra will make him patient. All of us have to chant this mantra as one time or other when we become impatient.
Children do not know the value of time. Chanting this mantra will make them to understand the importance of time.
BAM (in Vallabam) gives the effect of comfort. To settle down in a job or house this mantra can help. However, we have to chant from the heart. The effect it produces is enormous.
Viji is 32 years old. Her parents were trying to arrange a match for her, but with no success. They consulted numerous astrologers – who said in one voice that Viji can’t get married in the next three years.
On the instruction of Naran S. Balakumar, the whole family chanted the mantra, “Vallabam Gajaananam Yeka Thandham” madly. Within 15 days of chanting the marriage got fixed.
This mantra is an Obstacle Remover. If there is an unresolved problem and there is no end to the problem, chant Lalitham Lambodaram. If you say Lambodaram it will remove all obstacles – whatever type it may – spiritual or life problems.
Who doesn’t have obstacles anyway?
Hari Narayana Gopalam Hari Narayana Govindam
Refer the blog for a detailed explanation on the mantra: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/12/28/the-superman-power-within-us/
Ambika Anaadhi Nithanaa Hari Brummendra Sevitha
- To remain content and be happy
- You will provide unconditional love to others.
- When you regret about anything or life, for example when you feel, “My life is nothing but a routine. Why should I lead this life? I am just like a machine“. We may not ask like this every day. But on those days when you do feel so, then chant this mantra.
For Marriage and Relationships
Chant the mantras in the following order: Om Hum Namaha, Om Yum Namaha, Om Rum Namaha, Om Vum Namaha and Om Lum Namaha. For some more explainations refer: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/06/11/relationship-mantras/
Lalitham Sridharam, Lalitham Baskaram, Lalitham Sudarshnam
- It will fetch us abundance of money, happiness and comforts. Opens our eyes to abundance.
- Our capacity to love others will increase. When the heart is bubbling with love by chanting Lalitham, we can also become as beautiful as Lalitham.
- There won’t be any regression or setbacks, whether it’s your life or your career. Always you will move forward in life. No need to fear for demotion and degradation. Confidence will be built. In turn, when you have confidence you will get promoted.
- Removes obstacles – including known and unknown obstacles (can be present in your life; for example even after all your efforts you may think there seems to be no solution on hand).
- Will burn away all the previous karmas. Whatever sins and mistakes you may have committed, Lalitham helps one to forget (release) and be forgiven. We say our obstacles are due to karma – which can be released thanks to Lalitham. Once they are removed, then the obstacles are removed too.
- For Shade Sani – Saturn – it means delay restriction and obstacle.
- Knowing oneself – self revelation (Darshan)
- They vibrate with the right brain. It’s the right brain that has to guide our lives.
- If there is confusion, it gives clarity. If you want to know the truth and something fishy happening, chant this mantra.
For some more explainations refer: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2009/08/16/lalitham-mantras-for-abundance/
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