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Nobody is happy at home

Radhika

My family is really facing issues…

My brother earns quite an amount. However, my parents have to beg for the money. My Bhabhi will unknowingly or knowingly make life difficult for my mother.

My brother has no respect for parents. I don’t know how to make him realise what his parents have sacrificed for him. It’s even difficult to explain it to you.

I am really troubled now. I can’t see my parents especially my mother going through so much. And my brother is an estranged person now. There is no relationship existing. They live their own life inside the same house.

It’s very frustrating to see all this. My parents don’t take my money Even if i insist. I am tired.

Time and again there are fights arising. My parents aren’t happy. Bhabhi is also not happy. I am sure she wants to live separately. She once told my parents to move out of this house.

Why doesn’t my brother understand?

I want to take my parents and move out of this house. But for this there is no resource, parents want security. Brother wants property. So neither of them will budge.

I try to tell my brother what is right.

My mother thinks I am the one responsible for fights because I bring out the issues.

I feel helpless and rotten. I try to see things being ‘unattached’ to the world. But i can’t when it comes to my parents. My blood boils.

Give me some advice. Please.

Also I have been chanting ‘Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Dhantham’ around 50-100 times a day. Someday I feel good. Office life has been sorted out. But family life is still a problem. It has all started after my brother got married. With all due respect to my Bhabhi She comes from a rich family. So she has different values.

On top of this my marriage is still a big question mark.

Naran

Your intense desire to change your brother and the events happening will produce opposite results.

Pray and prayer only can help.

Instead of desiring what to happen, you thank your brother for respecting your parents.

Take a list of what you want for your parents. Say i thank the divine for………..

Daily do this.

Mantras and switch words will work when we surrender and accept the divine order only.

You cannot change anything with your will. Your will and divine will should unite. The link is the surrendering attitude. Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.

Chant NAMASHIVAYAM. This will help you to understand how to detach from the result

Radhika

Thank you sir…I realised…it’s not others…I am being too adamant and expecting things to follow a rule. Whereas…this universe is infinite…and has its own set of directions… I realise… I have to give in and surrender to somebody up there…

Thank you so much for this precious advice…

You are a great guide to life 🙂

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Unshaken by earthquakes

R Mohan

Thrice, I was unmoved

A year back, I was working late night (I am lazy, but sometimes I do work:)

Around 1.30 AM, I heard voices outside my flat. I found my neighbors were standing outside the apartment complex. When I enquired for the reasons, they wondered how come I didn’t feel the earth quake.

I didn’t wonder.  Why?

Yesterday (11-4-2012), I was having lunch in a hotel. I heard the table shaking a tiny bit. I thought it might be due to my restless legs hitting against the table. None of the people eating alongside me felt anything, while in the neighborhood everybody felt it.

When I went out, I saw several people were standing in the road. The hotel owner ran up to me and whispered in my ears that there were earth tremors around the city. We didn’t have anything in the hotel.

In the late afternoon, while I was watching TV, I saw again my neighbors coming out of the apartment. They were once again surprised.

I didn’t wonder. Why?

I was chanting the mantra for protection

I was listening to ‘OM HOWM VUM JOOM SAHA’ CD (running time is 3 minutes) for the last two years, based on Naran’s suggestion that this mantra has the capacity to shake away the earth quacks and any natural calamities.

Bach Flower Remedies for Divine Grace

For those who are not comfortable pronouncing this mantra, he suggests to keep in every residence the Bach Flower Remedies:

  • STAR OF BETHLEHEM: shock-absorber and
  • ROCK ROSE (what happens when you panic? You shake. It is a sudden loss of control. Earthquake is nothing but the earth-shaking): to restore control.
  • SWEET CHESTNUT: to have Divine grace. The Divine grace is nothing but the infinite flow of Divine love. Where there is flow of love one is always under the constant protection of the Divine from any calamities.

While others were shaking with fear, she was on a lifting mood

Malini took the Bach Flower remedy SWEET CHESTNUT just a few minutes before the first tremor in Chennai. Her boss asked her to go out and get him something from the local shop. While she was buying the stuff outside, the tremor was felt. People working in her building came out of it, fearing some calamity. Without realizing the issue, she happily went back to her office, using the lift.

Time to shake our cords

Why not join me to shake your cords (Divine Links) a little bit in the upcoming NARAN’S workshop on  ‘Strengthening Your Relationship Cords’  on April 21st from 10 AM TO 1 PM (participant fees Rs.500/-).

It will improve every aspect of our life, including avoiding earth quakes, for the exercise on cords strengthening ends with forming a strong bond between us and the Mother Earth.

Please check out the link for more details about the mantra: https://healbymeditation.wordpress.com/2012/02/01/dont-wait-for-disaster-to-happen/

Feel Love in Plenty

Priya

What do I have to chant to become emotionally independent of a particular person?

Naran

Take the Bach Flower Remedies, “Chicory” and “Walnut”. Along with that, chant the mantra, “Guru Gugan Kodi Kodi Lavanyam”

Getting surrounded with loving people

This mantra opens up our heart. When the heart is open, you will invite only loving people and kind people in your life. You will be surrounded by loving people.

If anybody thinks he is forsaken, abandoned, loveless, and think ‘Nobody is there for me, I love so many, but nobody loves me’, then this mantra will be of help. How? This mantra makes you love yourself. When our heart, bubbles with joy and love, then honest and kind people are attracted to us.

Release Unwanted Emotions

YAM is the one that can drive out unwanted emotions. Release it. By chanting YAM alone, our anger, sadness and worry can be driven away.

The VAM is present in Lavanyam (after you remove A, N and Y). It is the bija mantra for the Hara centre, which channels true love then. True emotions will be channelled, because of Vum. It brings out true emotions of love.

Finding Love

The mantra brings the true love from heart. Who is the guru inside your heart? Atman is the guru in the heart. Heart centre is also known as Anahata.  It contains an infinite sound within it. The ataman in the heart centre is in the form of infinite sound, which is also the primordial sound.

Thus this particular mantra release unwanted emotions from you, gives you love within yourself.

Heal the Loveless Life

Now a day the parents feel that their children living in foreign countries don’t love them anymore and feel loveless. In the same way, those without children feel loveless too. This mantra will make them love themselves better.

The heat need not go to anywhere to find heat. Water doesn’t need anything else to quench itself. When the atman is activated with love, in the form of a ray of light, in the tunnel of your heart, then you don’t need to go anywhere for love. This mantra creates millions and millions of rays of light of love inside the heart.

GUGAN is the one word which transmits love from heart to our organs. In addition, our entire auric field will be filled with love.

Chant the mantra seriously

That atman or guru will come and stay in our hearts permanently.

You should chant this mantra in a manner that tears should come down the cheek. Why? Atman is not an ordinary person. It is part of Divine and full of love. In such an instance, when you have so much love in your heart, it should come out as tears.

You need not have a relationship with others. Have a relationship with yourself. “We have to relate with ourselves only”, is the message of this mantra.

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