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Two sides of the same coin

Naran

In this world you can’t eliminate anybody – that’s the rule

If there is a war maker there is a peacemaker.

If there is violence there has to be non-violence.

I want you, as I need you. In addition, I don’t want somebody else, as I don’t need them.

Where there is a snake there is a peacock. Where there is a lion there is a cow. However, all are inside us.

How to balance yourself in spite of bipolarity?

Balance leads to polarity. If there is conflict between two then there is bipolarity.

We don’t want lion, but we become a lion in some place.

When we want to end violence, we wage a war. To kill terrorists, we send an army. We use violence to kill violence.

How it is happening?

How to make sure this doesn’t happen?

We have to accept what we don’t like as one day you may dislike what you like today.

In the same way, what we don’t want  today, may be wanted  tomorrow.

How to fix this behaviour of our mind as it’s easy to talk but difficult to follow?

Whenever I am in state of sadness, when I fear, when we feel helpless…then I am not able to do anything.  This is the time we need to chant the mantra, “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA”.

Then we will understand that we need everything in this world and that we need both theists and atheists, and so on.

Mind Control

Even after that solution is not visible, there is no progress and the problem is still there. At that time what we have to do? At that time only surrender will work.

AMBIKA ANADHINIDHANA ASWAROODA APARAJITHA – We have to chant this with full love. Ambika is the universal mother. When you call the universal mother there should be love from the heart.

Anadhinidhana means clearing or solving all types of obstacles or problems. When you go in the spiritual path there will be a lot of obstacles.

Ashwaroodaa – Aswa means a horse. Mind is not a monkey but it is a horse. You cannot channelize the mind or control as it moves so fast like a horse. One who controls this horse is Ashwaroodaa.

One who controls the mind or one who wins the mind is invincible.  Nobody can win him, but that is Aparaajithaa.

When you want success the mind should not be there. So the mind should die. When will the mind die? That is only when you surrender.

Till I find the solution I will fight. But when I am not able to solve the problem I will surrender, the mind dies and then the Divine will start acting.

Till such time you surrender, the Divine will be silent. When you surrender as you cannot endure any more, then the Divine will wake up. When mind is active, the Divine is inactive and when the Mind in inactive, the Divine is active.

It is very difficult to understand the life. One who wins the mind can understand the life better.

Even after this, it is not happening means then what you desire is not for you and therefore, you can give up. 

Nobody is happy at home

Radhika

My family is really facing issues…

My brother earns quite an amount. However, my parents have to beg for the money. My Bhabhi will unknowingly or knowingly make life difficult for my mother.

My brother has no respect for parents. I don’t know how to make him realise what his parents have sacrificed for him. It’s even difficult to explain it to you.

I am really troubled now. I can’t see my parents especially my mother going through so much. And my brother is an estranged person now. There is no relationship existing. They live their own life inside the same house.

It’s very frustrating to see all this. My parents don’t take my money Even if i insist. I am tired.

Time and again there are fights arising. My parents aren’t happy. Bhabhi is also not happy. I am sure she wants to live separately. She once told my parents to move out of this house.

Why doesn’t my brother understand?

I want to take my parents and move out of this house. But for this there is no resource, parents want security. Brother wants property. So neither of them will budge.

I try to tell my brother what is right.

My mother thinks I am the one responsible for fights because I bring out the issues.

I feel helpless and rotten. I try to see things being ‘unattached’ to the world. But i can’t when it comes to my parents. My blood boils.

Give me some advice. Please.

Also I have been chanting ‘Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Dhantham’ around 50-100 times a day. Someday I feel good. Office life has been sorted out. But family life is still a problem. It has all started after my brother got married. With all due respect to my Bhabhi She comes from a rich family. So she has different values.

On top of this my marriage is still a big question mark.

Naran

Your intense desire to change your brother and the events happening will produce opposite results.

Pray and prayer only can help.

Instead of desiring what to happen, you thank your brother for respecting your parents.

Take a list of what you want for your parents. Say i thank the divine for………..

Daily do this.

Mantras and switch words will work when we surrender and accept the divine order only.

You cannot change anything with your will. Your will and divine will should unite. The link is the surrendering attitude. Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.

Chant NAMASHIVAYAM. This will help you to understand how to detach from the result

Radhika

Thank you sir…I realised…it’s not others…I am being too adamant and expecting things to follow a rule. Whereas…this universe is infinite…and has its own set of directions… I realise… I have to give in and surrender to somebody up there…

Thank you so much for this precious advice…

You are a great guide to life 🙂

I have no regrets in my life

Guru Mangala

Since my return in Feb (called back) my brother-in-law was critical with Prostate cancer which was galloping, I have been constantly in touch with Balakumar.  I wish to bring to others a few more positive healings.   

My brother-in-law Capt Sundaresan was dying in Coimbatore of prostate cancer. He was in a hospice and waiting for death. He was 79 years old.  The whole family was in a depression because he was everybody’s favorite person and they could not bear to see him suffer like this.  The indefinite waiting was agony for him and others.

I asked Naran for help. He asked us to chant the mantra “KUNCHITA PAADAM SHARANAM” and then “KAALAM NAMAMYAHAM” placed under his pillow and I gave WALNUT too.

For the family in waiting I added (Bach Flower Remedy) WALNUT and RED CHESTNUT (concern for the patient) along with RESCUE REMEDY (a difficult situation to handle) to the drinking water.

What was very surprising to the hospice staff is that in spite of the cancer spreading to all organs and mouth, why was he not in pain? They never gave any palliative, only care.  Everyone said, “He is not in pain because it is the good Karma he accumulated through the selfless life he has leaded.  He took so many people’s pain away and so their gratitude is helping him stay without pain”. No DOUBT.

 But in my mind I was sure it is the Chants, The flowers and the constant affirmations, which we were guided by Balakumar, added to the Good Karma. 

Capt died peacefully on March 10th, listening to MS Subbulakshmi‘s song “Kuraionrum Illai” (there are no more regrets for me) and as my sister-in-law was chanting the Gayatri mantra.

Thanks to Naran for this healing.

Lalitham mantras for abundance

Chant the mantras in the following order:

Lalitham Sridharam,

Lalitham Baskaram and

Lalitham Sudarshnam

Benefits of Lalitham

Lalitha means beauty. I combined M with it – as M immediately vibrates with the right brain. That’s why Bija mantras end with M. It’s the right brain that has to guide our lives.

Whatever sins and mistakes you may have committed, Lalitham helps you to release and be forgiven.

We say our obstacles are due to our bad karma. However, they can be released thanks to Lalitham. Once they are removed, the obstacles to our lives are also removed.

Lalitham Sridharam

Thanks to this mantra, Money will flow into our lives.  Any problem that deals with basic/root/Mooladhara chakra can be handled by this mantra. Then abundance of happiness, comfort and money will result in.

La, Lum (bija mantras) – for Basic Chakra, Tham attracts, Sri – activates third eye, and Rum – energises Solar Plexus Chakra.

Sri and M (at the end of mantra) à Sri is Lakshmi. This is the mantra for Goddess Lakshmi. Lakshmi will be present, where Vishnu (Narayan) is there. Speciality of Vishnu is that while we search for Lakshmi, Lakshmi is attracted to Narayan. Sridharam – Lakshmi attracted by Narayan. SRIM in Sridharam helps us to establish peace, and destroy evil.

Why we need Rum? When money comes, first confidence will come and then ego will come along with that. Thanks to Rum ego will be removed and Solar Plexus chakra will be balanced.

Lalitham Baskaram (sun)

If there is confusion, it gives clarity. If you want to know the truth and something fishy is happening, chant this mantra.

It will not make you look behind your life. You will keep moving forward as it creates step by step advancement.

Lalitham Sudarshnam

Sudarshnam means light. “SUYA Dharshan” means knowing oneself. Seven to eight Bija mantras are inside this mantra.

Advantages of Lalitham Mantras

All the three are useful to handle Shade Sani.

They can be chanted to handle difficult situations too, for it will bring light into the situation.

You can do it while walking or sitting. It will improve total Punniyam (good karma). You can put Chin Mudra or Acceptance Mudra while chanting this mantra.

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