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Nobody is happy at home

Radhika

My family is really facing issues…

My brother earns quite an amount. However, my parents have to beg for the money. My Bhabhi will unknowingly or knowingly make life difficult for my mother.

My brother has no respect for parents. I don’t know how to make him realise what his parents have sacrificed for him. It’s even difficult to explain it to you.

I am really troubled now. I can’t see my parents especially my mother going through so much. And my brother is an estranged person now. There is no relationship existing. They live their own life inside the same house.

It’s very frustrating to see all this. My parents don’t take my money Even if i insist. I am tired.

Time and again there are fights arising. My parents aren’t happy. Bhabhi is also not happy. I am sure she wants to live separately. She once told my parents to move out of this house.

Why doesn’t my brother understand?

I want to take my parents and move out of this house. But for this there is no resource, parents want security. Brother wants property. So neither of them will budge.

I try to tell my brother what is right.

My mother thinks I am the one responsible for fights because I bring out the issues.

I feel helpless and rotten. I try to see things being ‘unattached’ to the world. But i can’t when it comes to my parents. My blood boils.

Give me some advice. Please.

Also I have been chanting ‘Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Dhantham’ around 50-100 times a day. Someday I feel good. Office life has been sorted out. But family life is still a problem. It has all started after my brother got married. With all due respect to my Bhabhi She comes from a rich family. So she has different values.

On top of this my marriage is still a big question mark.

Naran

Your intense desire to change your brother and the events happening will produce opposite results.

Pray and prayer only can help.

Instead of desiring what to happen, you thank your brother for respecting your parents.

Take a list of what you want for your parents. Say i thank the divine for………..

Daily do this.

Mantras and switch words will work when we surrender and accept the divine order only.

You cannot change anything with your will. Your will and divine will should unite. The link is the surrendering attitude. Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.

Chant NAMASHIVAYAM. This will help you to understand how to detach from the result

Radhika

Thank you sir…I realised…it’s not others…I am being too adamant and expecting things to follow a rule. Whereas…this universe is infinite…and has its own set of directions… I realise… I have to give in and surrender to somebody up there…

Thank you so much for this precious advice…

You are a great guide to life 🙂

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My Health Has Improved a Lot

Roopa

THIRUNEELAKANTAM

After chanting “THIRUNEELAKNATAM” min. of 200 times a day for the past 3 months or so, my husband has decreased the no. of times using Pan Parag packets. I am still continuing it.

VALLABHAM GAJANANAM EKA THANDHEM

 At the same time, “VALLABHAM GAJANANAM EKA THANDHEM” has become my first mantra in the morning as I am working professional. The TIME literally stands still. This is really gorgeous.

I have also asked my sister to do this and she has also faced the same. Apart from this, I wrote this mantra and put it under the sleeping bed. It has taken care of my health, my husband’s health immensely.

HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA

It has solved multiple problems. My spiritual connection has increased. I have changed my attitude, my behavior with lot of calmness, patience, feeling safe and secure. Also, I have written the mantra and kept it under my bed.

I have no worries, and no fear – almost to ZERO.

Forgiving exercise

Though I am still not able to forgive one person in my life, I have seen lot of changes within myself.

Naran, I know no bounds to the happiness that you have showered on the “MANKIND” on this earth. Hope, we have more and more classes conducted all around the world so that more and more people get to know about it and start working towards it.

Thanks is the only word we can give you n PRAY for long life for you and Shobana madam.

Develop a Surrendering Attitude

Desire to change has to be removed from us. What we have to do for that? We have to develop the attitude, “This life is not mine. Whatever I have is not mine”.

Finding Atman

How to find the atman? We need not find it. It is there inside you. When you sleep you are inside the dream as well as outside it. Who is the person inside the dream? Who is seeing it? In our dream state, the soul is seeing it. During our waking state, we are seeing things around us. The one that sees during the sleep is Atma.

Feeding the Atman

We have to feed the atman, which we don’t do. That’s why agnihotram is performed.

Whatever you buy for yourself, say “Suryaya Swaha”.

Before eating anything, say “Suryaya Idham Na mama” (this is not mine).

The one god who everybody can see is Sun.

Agnaye Swaha   Agnaye Idham Na mama (Agni is the life force within us).

Praja Pathaye Swaha Praja Pathaye Idham Na mama.

Praja pathi is universal energy – which is nothing but Reiki. What is its Rupam (figure)? It’s Narayana, who has pervaded the entire universe.

Offering to Universe

Therefore, say to yourself, “I offer this — (anything you buy or eat, anything you do) to universal energy, because this is not mine”.

Think, “Today is not mine.”

Whenever you are about to perform an action, think “I am not the doer”. Say these three Mantras before any action.

Whenever money is deposited in the bank in your name, chant the mantras.

When you are happy, say it to yourself, this is not mine.

Whatever I had purchased is not mine.

We have to cultivate this surrendering attitude.

Being an Unfit is a Blessing

When you are unfit in this world, you are fit in the other world. God is not going to ask you what degree you have done. It will not be asked.

Think, “This life is not mine as somebody created it”.

Whatever you earn, you are not going to take it, so Swaha. Whatever name or money you earn, give it up now (inside the mind). So it will be easy in the end (when you die).

When somebody says thanks, say it is not mine saying “Suryaya Swaha Suryaya Idham Namama”.

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