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Two sides of the same coin

Naran

In this world you can’t eliminate anybody – that’s the rule

If there is a war maker there is a peacemaker.

If there is violence there has to be non-violence.

I want you, as I need you. In addition, I don’t want somebody else, as I don’t need them.

Where there is a snake there is a peacock. Where there is a lion there is a cow. However, all are inside us.

How to balance yourself in spite of bipolarity?

Balance leads to polarity. If there is conflict between two then there is bipolarity.

We don’t want lion, but we become a lion in some place.

When we want to end violence, we wage a war. To kill terrorists, we send an army. We use violence to kill violence.

How it is happening?

How to make sure this doesn’t happen?

We have to accept what we don’t like as one day you may dislike what you like today.

In the same way, what we don’t want  today, may be wanted  tomorrow.

How to fix this behaviour of our mind as it’s easy to talk but difficult to follow?

Whenever I am in state of sadness, when I fear, when we feel helpless…then I am not able to do anything.  This is the time we need to chant the mantra, “HARE RAMA HARE KRISHNA”.

Then we will understand that we need everything in this world and that we need both theists and atheists, and so on.

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Nobody is happy at home

Radhika

My family is really facing issues…

My brother earns quite an amount. However, my parents have to beg for the money. My Bhabhi will unknowingly or knowingly make life difficult for my mother.

My brother has no respect for parents. I don’t know how to make him realise what his parents have sacrificed for him. It’s even difficult to explain it to you.

I am really troubled now. I can’t see my parents especially my mother going through so much. And my brother is an estranged person now. There is no relationship existing. They live their own life inside the same house.

It’s very frustrating to see all this. My parents don’t take my money Even if i insist. I am tired.

Time and again there are fights arising. My parents aren’t happy. Bhabhi is also not happy. I am sure she wants to live separately. She once told my parents to move out of this house.

Why doesn’t my brother understand?

I want to take my parents and move out of this house. But for this there is no resource, parents want security. Brother wants property. So neither of them will budge.

I try to tell my brother what is right.

My mother thinks I am the one responsible for fights because I bring out the issues.

I feel helpless and rotten. I try to see things being ‘unattached’ to the world. But i can’t when it comes to my parents. My blood boils.

Give me some advice. Please.

Also I have been chanting ‘Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Dhantham’ around 50-100 times a day. Someday I feel good. Office life has been sorted out. But family life is still a problem. It has all started after my brother got married. With all due respect to my Bhabhi She comes from a rich family. So she has different values.

On top of this my marriage is still a big question mark.

Naran

Your intense desire to change your brother and the events happening will produce opposite results.

Pray and prayer only can help.

Instead of desiring what to happen, you thank your brother for respecting your parents.

Take a list of what you want for your parents. Say i thank the divine for………..

Daily do this.

Mantras and switch words will work when we surrender and accept the divine order only.

You cannot change anything with your will. Your will and divine will should unite. The link is the surrendering attitude. Surrendering is Samarpanam. Samarpanam is keeping all our words, prayers and actions at the feet of Divine with the intention to accept whatever he offers.

Chant NAMASHIVAYAM. This will help you to understand how to detach from the result

Radhika

Thank you sir…I realised…it’s not others…I am being too adamant and expecting things to follow a rule. Whereas…this universe is infinite…and has its own set of directions… I realise… I have to give in and surrender to somebody up there…

Thank you so much for this precious advice…

You are a great guide to life 🙂

Mantras for Bliss

When you are criticized and blamed

To protect ourselves from others’ anger and criticism and to ignore others’ criticism chant the mantra “OM JOOM SAHA SAHA JOOM OM”. Instead of reacting with anger, chant the mantra, which protects you against evil eye too.

Avoid accidents in your life

OM PADMA NANDESHWARA HOOM, if you chant this mantra 20000 times, no accident will happen. This mantra is also for wealth building and not for wealth earning. However, if you chant 200,000 Lakh times you will amass enormous wealth. When you have debts, chant this mantra.

Kadgam Saranam

Chanting KADGAM SARANAM will bring your anger down.

Overcome animalist tendencies

PASUPATHIM MAHADEVAM: to overcome animalist tendencies, this mantra will help.

Uncontrollable anger

OM HREEM TAHA: will put off the anger fire. Very effective for controlling one’s unnecessary and misplaced anger.

Reducing your weight

“OM HOWM VUM JOOM SAHA” mantra will reduce the weight. So it can be your life mantra J Stop all your dieting procedures. You need to accept your body. Love the body god has given to you. What happens inside us happens outside – our body. So heal yourself first.

Gain youthfulness

SAHN SAHN JOE LEU BAW YOW WU – the Chinese mantra is very effective for anything related with common cold. More and more you chant and faster you chant it is very effective. Pull the wedges between fingers in both the hands, while you chant the mantra. Then all the internal organs are massaged and youthfulness is bought back.

Peace brings a job!

Mahir left the job he had been working for last 6 years in Arizona, USA. Even though there were fewer jobs around, he had decided to do it, as he was not happy about the job.

Initially, he was little bit stressed out. To add to his worries, his father, who was living alone in Mumbai, was not feeling well, due to old age problems and with nobody to support him.

Mahir lost his peace of mind. Because of this, he couldn’t focus on his interviews. In the two interviews he attended, even though he was meeting the job requirements, he wasn’t selected, as he didn’t do well in the interviews.

He wanted to fix his lack of concentration, which would improve his preparation for the interviews. When he contacted me, I suggested to him various stuff, right from Bach Flower Remedies, Switch Words, to Mantras.

Somehow he got hooked to the Lalitham mantras and started chanting, “Lalitham Sridharam Lalitham Baskaram Lalitham Sudarshnam” many times during the day, whether he was working or driving. Naran says, each one of us would be attracted towards a specific mantra or a healing technique, the benefits of which can be found only by that individual.

In a matter of few days, Mahir started feeling peaceful. He could focus on his interview preparation – both studying as well do searching on the Internet.

Within a couple of weeks of chanting, the company, which rejected him, in the first place, called him once again. The same person who was not confident about Mahir earlier surprisingly interviewed him.

Mahir did well. And this time the interviewer gave an excellent feedback about him. Mahir was selected for the job.

Now, Mahir wants to listen to the Alpha CD prepared by Naran S. Balakumar, where the Lalitham mantras are played on the foreground.

– R Mohan

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